Posted by happyflower on July 13, 2005, at 19:24:30
In reply to Repost: loving your therapist (rabidreader), posted by alexandra_k on July 13, 2005, at 16:58:09
I wouldn't, I would try to work it out on my own. It seems like those feelings do fade with time. So people feel they need to tell them, not me. Just enjoy the fantasy and it will become less of an issue. I have so many issues in therapy I am not going to pay 90 bucks for my T to "label " the feeling and basically tell you what us Babblers already know about transference anyways! I don't need rejection in my life, but if it is interefering with therapy and it has been interfering for a long time, then something should be said maybe to them. OR try writing out your feelings, that helps me, to read it, it helps get it out of my head.
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