Posted by 64bowtie on July 13, 2005, at 3:15:38
In reply to I'm sick, posted by Dinah on July 12, 2005, at 5:00:42
> I'm afraid to do anything for fear that it will cause me to lose what I have.
><<< I evoked a response from you by my pointing out how children fear change because to them, they can only see how "change means loss"... By employing your mind's eye for positive results that really "are", instead of highlighting negatives that might be but never quite come true the way your fantacies imply... You can then lead your way out from the discomfort of fears of the uncertain and fears of the unknown... A supervisor is only successful when they have 3 traits, responsibility, accountability, and leadership... Practicing your leadership skills is hard to do when you are also practicing oblgation and expectation habits... You might recognize this if yesterday always seem to be as troubling as tomorrow looks like it might be... I do hear your leadership skills... Study your day to day leadership and practice employing those skills to lead yourself out of your troubling thoughts...
Rod
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