Posted by Emily Elizabeth on July 6, 2005, at 0:16:58
In reply to I know you all are going to blast me!, posted by Jazzed on July 5, 2005, at 23:31:43
There is something in your post that just sounds so much like me. I've never had a situation like that with a T, but I have had a number of other relationships in my life like that. It most typically happens with a romantic relationship for me. I know I'm in something that doesn't feel right and doesn't make me happy, but I stay...for months and months and months. I want to complain about it, but I feel funny going to my friends b/c I know that they are all going to say, "Just leave him!" But it never feels that simple from my side.
So, I guess what I am trying to say is: it could be really helpful to think about how this fits into the larger picture of your life. Do you usually take *&%$ from people that you shouldn't? Is it hard for you to leave bad relationships?
So, hugs from a fellow babbler that can (I think) understand a little piece of what you are feeling. You know in your heart what you want to do and when you can do it. Trust yourself and take care of yourself too.
Best,
EE
poster:Emily Elizabeth
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