Posted by Damos on June 28, 2005, at 20:24:32
In reply to Re: grr » Damos, posted by alexandra_k on June 28, 2005, at 19:06:58
I didn't see victim here. I saw feeling riped-off and fed up. Hmm, self absorbed worm ay, don't hold back now Alex tell us what you realy think ;-). I think you're right though, it does appear that everything he does is from 'his' perspective and what he feels is right for him. And yes, the very least he could do is give you another way to see what has happened. What would that cost him? Nothing.
I have a sneaking suspicion that anyone who deared question or appeared to criticise him would get his back up whether they were right or not, whether there was reason for him to get his back up or not. Some people are just like that. Everything is a personal affront to them. As for his not having time, well he may just be one of these people for who everything is urgent and they lurch from one crisis to the next because they can't focus on what's truly important. Then because because they didn't deal with it when it was important and not urgent it suddenly becomes another crisis to be dealt with. It's all about how you prioritise stuff - like taking calls during sessions.
Alex, I've spent most of my life biting my tongue and holding back on stuff and it hasn't done me the least little bit of good. And I'm not sure what there is to say that will change anything. He seems to have ruled a line under it and moved on. not realising that people like us can't just do that. I don't think he realises that for most of us, we are all we've got.
Well let's hope your 'T' can find a space for you soon. Puppy sends her love.
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