Posted by Dinah on June 28, 2005, at 17:02:49
In reply to My Dream, posted by pinkeye on June 28, 2005, at 15:11:10
Could it be related to the anxiety over sending him the last email you sent him? I know you weren't expecting a reply. But perhaps when you didn't receive one, it made you wonder what you would have to do to get a response from him. And the dream answer was that there was no way to get a response from him.
I really think the motives you're attributing to your therapist, about you not being worth writing to, probably aren't his motives at all. Since he's not a therapist anymore, his motives are probably to do what he thought was in your best interests. Stepping aside so that you could see someone who currently is a therapist. Perhaps there are even legal issues involved in his continuing to correspond with an ex-patient when he is no longer a therapist.
I really wish he had provided a bit of conversation around the termination so that you aren't left to fill in the blanks on your own. I know when I fill in the blanks, I usually fill in the worst possible answers.
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