Posted by pinkeye on June 23, 2005, at 16:04:06
In reply to Frankly I don't know what to feel » pinkeye, posted by pinkeye on June 23, 2005, at 15:54:27
I am thinking that even if I terminate with her, lot of my emotional resource will be spent on processing what happened with my ex T. Just becuase he is a guy, and I have all this confusing transference towards him. I feel warm and affectionate towards my current T, but I don't feel all these pangs of loss. Plus termination is also going to be done more in an appropriate way - we have decided to talk a lot about it in the next 5 sessions - in fact she says we need to talk only about that hereafter. So I am pretty sure I will be able to close down without feeling left or abandoned. I might miss her insights and ability to understand me thoroughly, but I think I will be able to close down without going through hurt and pain.
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