Posted by pinkeye on June 23, 2005, at 12:43:35
In reply to Re: a letter to my ex T. » pinkeye, posted by daisym on June 23, 2005, at 0:35:23
Daisy, Dinah - I think you are right.. It is good that I wrote it, but I shouldn't send it. He won't reply anyway, and it would definitely feel more bad. Plus I honestly think he is a very good guy and just needs to learn little more into handling transference. He has been practicing only for 2 years totally, and I am sure he has a lot of things to learn and he will learn slowly. So he doesn't deserve this kind of letter also.
HappyFlower/Lady Bug - I see boht your points, but I think I won't be able to help myself expecting a reply. Plus it will also look as if I am trying to make him reply to me some way or the other and trying to cling on to him. So it is not really a good thing for me to do as well. My current T suggests that I should not write to my ex T at all anymore. That I should try to go on my own instead of somehwo still wishing to connect with him.
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