Posted by pinkeye on June 21, 2005, at 14:25:23
In reply to Re: Should I marry someone like my dad? » pinkeye, posted by Tamar on June 21, 2005, at 8:11:07
I think she just suggested it as a good option if I am unhappy with not being able to relate to my husband. I don't think she is pressing me to do it.
For me, somehow it has always been easier to connect to guys 3 - 4 years older than me.. I feel very attracted to them compared to men my age. And generally I get along very well with guys who are little authoritative..
But on the ohter hand, I also dislike beign controlled and told what to do.. I am so afraid of beign controlled.. so I don't know if it would really be good for me to be with an elder and little authoritative person.
It is like I love and dislike the same quality at the same time.. QUite possibly relating to my love/hate relationship with my fahter.
But another thing to consider is the fact that I outgrow people somewhat fast.. So even if a guy is older now, and knows more than I do, I might outgrow the guy in a couple of years.. Then what to do is a question.
But I feel very immensely attracted when someone is 3 - 4 years older and good.
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