Posted by happyflower on June 21, 2005, at 2:06:38
In reply to Re: Should I marry someone like my dad? » happyflower, posted by pinkeye on June 20, 2005, at 22:06:34
> But I really like guys who are little older than me.. maybe 3 - 4 years. Somehow it makes me feel safe and trusting.
It is okay to like guys a little older than you, but I don't think they will feel like a father to you. I am attracted to older men, always has been. I do feel like older men know who they are and have established themselves already. Older guys are the same as younger guys, some are rotten, and some are good.
I don't think your dad or your T is good examples of a future man. I think it is because of them, you are having the problems. Me, I found a guy exactly the opposite of my dad, and it worked for me! lol
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