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I think I have made my peace with my ex T » pinkeye

Posted by pinkeye on June 7, 2005, at 14:14:06

In reply to Trying to make peace and let go, posted by pinkeye on June 3, 2005, at 15:36:56

I am actually now happy that he terminated me. It had to happen for me to understand myself more. All the underlying problems about my dad would have been uncovered had he terminated me more gradually.

Since I suffered intensely, I kept telling my current T, and that helped her identify the issues with my father. If my ex T hadn't terminated me or did it very gradually or said he liked me at that time, I wouldn't have bothered to look deep into myself and figure out the real issue that I had (mild abuse, problems with dad etc).

And my feelings about my ex T was not really all that much about him. I think there was genuine liking and appreciation, but most of it was about my father.

I am getting cured for real this time.


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