Posted by pinkeye on June 6, 2005, at 18:40:24
In reply to no it WASNT her » Jazzed, posted by shrinking violet on June 6, 2005, at 13:03:35
I can understand the frustration of not beign able to reach out when help is offered.
I also think I should have told my ex T about my problems with my father when I still had a chance. That would have helped him understand me a lot more. I didn't say it for all those 2 and a half years. And now I feel bad.
But sometimes even if the T is personally very good and well intentioned and tries to get things out of us, it takes a long time for some people to talk. You have seen people here who are in therapy much longer than you. And many issues come out at a longer time - it takes years for some people to talk and trust. Maybe it is just a matter of time with your Ex T. And she couldn't wait for you long enough. (because of university considerations etc). And now that you are ready, you should find someone else.
poster:pinkeye
thread:507991
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20050606/msgs/508742.html