Posted by Jazzed on June 3, 2005, at 7:15:07
In reply to Re: I have the urge..., posted by alexandra_k on June 3, 2005, at 5:50:56
I think you should print this out for yourself, and for your T. If she reads it she can help you more than keeping all of this to yourself. It sounds like she really wants to help you, but that you're holding back. If you can open up, she can help you, but if you can't you'll be at a standstill. If she's willing to go with you to plead your case for funding she might be more valuable than a lawyer who knows nothing about you. I'd discuss what's going to be said in the hearing, and how she can help you - w/o devaluing her. I think depersonalizing a T is common, just like liking them TOO much. It's a defense mechanism, but they are still human, and have feelings. I think you can see that. Open up to her, and maybe good things will happen for you.
Jazzed
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