Re: I annoy my T

Posted by Jazzed on May 17, 2005, at 20:15:00

In reply to I annoy my T, posted by namaste on May 12, 2005, at 21:37:57

> I am confused. i thought Ts have unconditional positive regard? I am annoying I guess sometimes but i feel so ungrounded when she gets annoyed at me. Maybe Ts can react?maybe it is a learning it is not in an unkind way, once my T even apologized when she felt it was unfair. Does this make any sense?

If my therapist (I don't currently have one) told me they were annoyed with me, I'd turn the tables on them, and ask if that comment was useful to me. I think to tell someone their annoyed with them isn't really very productive. Hash out the issues yes, but just make that comment, no.
Jazzed

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I annoy my T namaste 5/12/05
Re: I annoy my T » namaste Dinah 5/12/05
Re: I annoy my T » namaste alexandra_k 5/12/05
Re: I annoy my T Susan47 5/14/05
Re: I annoy my T » namaste Poet 5/14/05
Poet, you expressed that well. Dinah 5/14/05
Re: I annoy my T » namaste fallsfall 5/14/05
Re: I annoy my T namaste 5/15/05
Always :) (the anwer to whether to talk to T) (nm) » namaste Dinah 5/15/05
Re: Always :) (the anwer to whether to talk to T) namaste 5/15/05
Re: I annoy my T » Poet antigua 5/17/05
Re: I annoy my T Jazzed 5/17/05
Re: I annoy my T » antigua Poet 5/17/05
Thanks. No babblemail today (nm) » namaste antigua 5/18/05
Namaste? Is it REALLY you? paxvox 5/26/05
Re: Namaste? Is it REALLY you? namaste 5/26/05

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