Posted by Susan47 on May 7, 2005, at 19:38:13
In reply to Re: Damos and Anastasia and 10derheart, please. » Susan47, posted by 10derHeart on May 7, 2005, at 17:23:34
Well, if it's love and or desire and or sexual attraction, don't be afraid to mention it and talk it to death. If he can do that with you, and you two can discuss anything, then it's good.
My ex-T believed all the good stuff about himself, he just lapped it all up like a cat with the cream.
Any of the bad stuff was too threatening for him, it was all a closed book, I had to work too damn hard, and he was provocative. You know that? He was actually provocative and punishing.
I don't hate him, exactly, but he has certainly dropped a few levels in my regard.
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