Posted by 10derHeart on May 7, 2005, at 12:59:09
In reply to Damos and Anastasia and 10derheart, please., posted by Susan47 on May 4, 2005, at 11:13:59
Susan,
Its okay. Like I said in my first post, I know your nature enough to not really be hurt. Maybe I just like to point out the potential when we say stuff like that - on behalf of others in the future.
Who might be more fragile.
Who might misunderstand you.
Who might get upset.
I'm not.
I've just been burnt out.
I have a lot of "Babble fatigue" right now.
And , I'll admit, anything to do with appearance, clothes, weight, the outer stuff - not my favorite subject.
When I say I couldn't bear to even go there with ex-T. and won't now with this T., you can rest assured it's not anyting you did.
It's old, chronic and scary to me.
So that's why I didn't answer you for so long.
Because I just avoid it all together.
Not because you caused any hurt.
It's fine.
I'm thinking it was meant to be that this was mentioned and I took it the way I chose to.
I am a person who avoids almost nothing in therapy.
Except this.
And I suppose that'll have to change soon. :-(
poster:10derHeart
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