Posted by pinkeye on April 28, 2005, at 13:05:35
In reply to Trying to understand spite, posted by Sarah T. on April 28, 2005, at 3:08:19
AVOID THEM AND RUN AWAY AS FAR AS YOU CAN FROM THEM. NO USE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT CAUSES IT. THEY WILL END UP ONLY HURTING YOU ALL THE MORE.
I have personal experience with a colleague who was like this, and to my worst worst nightmare, I was even a little attracted to him in the beginning. Till today, I wonder whatever made me feel attracted to him in the first place. It was like a mystery to me and I wanted to solve it, and was drawn into that. His anger was so powerful and he was obviously struggling so much with it, and I thought I could help him. But guess towards whom his anger turned into? - Me.
Don't even think of trying to help this person. It is a complete waste. If there is one person, who I never ever want to see again in my life and absolutely hate from the core of my heart, it is this person.
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