Posted by Susan47 on April 15, 2005, at 9:52:44
In reply to Re: update, posted by sunny10 on April 15, 2005, at 7:49:06
I haven't finished reading your post Sunny. You told the landlord he strangled you (not to death, but strangulation is strangulation, look it up). So you told the landlord but you did NOT tell your SO that you told the landlord he strangled you, you told your SO that you told the landlord he HURT you.
Honey, LISTEN UP. If you cannot tell your SO that you are telling people he STRANGLED you, if you have to COUCH it NOW, You are afraid that he will be angry or upset with you if you tell him that he tried to STRANGLE you ... You already know that the truth will upset him. You know he cannot face the truth. He is definitely in denial no matter what he says. Unless he faces the truth, which is that he was thisfar from KILLING you, and unless he can talk to you and professionals about this, drop him. I have been in your shoes and don't be stupid. Please don't ignore the facts to please your SO.
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