Posted by damos on April 14, 2005, at 22:27:19
In reply to Re: update » Damos, posted by Susan47 on April 14, 2005, at 21:00:13
> Yes, he has to behave himself out of things he's behaved himself into, right? That makes so much sense. I never saw things quite in that way before but it's so true. Wow. Where'd you get that, did you make that up?
Nah, you can thank Stephen Covey for that gem. Probably the only thing I didn't react with "yeah and you're so totally full of sh*t mate" to.
It is true and I try to be aware of my behaviour every minute of every day, fail often and badly, but know that an apology doesn't excuse the hurt.
There was another thing he said that I can't quite remember right but try to carry with me. Something like "it's not so much that what you did hurt me, but that you didn't care enough not to."
I'm a mess today, I'll try and find it for you when/if I go back to the office.
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