Borderline, devaluating loved ones...

Posted by NightStar72 on April 6, 2005, at 4:22:08

I have a problem, I just realized that I devaluate my SO, the person I love most, and I didn't know it was a BPD trait but reading research tonight I found it, just out there.
I am very upset by this, and want to know if anyone else has done this, if they know how to coup (stop) when they catch themselves, what to do to repair a given instance of relaps.
I want to learn how to live in the moment, how to be not so serious all the time, how to look outside of myself and communicate more with others. It seems so flustrating, that I keep making the same mistake - hitting the same brick wall over and over again.

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Borderline, devaluating loved ones... NightStar72 4/6/05
Re: Borderline, devaluating loved ones... sunny10 4/6/05
Re: Borderline, devaluating loved ones... NightStar72 4/6/05
Re: Borderline, devaluating loved ones... » NightStar72 alexandra_k 4/7/05
Re: Borderline, devaluating loved ones... » alexandra_k NightStar72 4/7/05
Re: Borderline, devaluating loved ones... » NightStar72 Shortelise 4/7/05
Re: Borderline, devaluating loved ones... » Shortelise NightStar72 4/7/05

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