Posted by pinkeye on March 16, 2005, at 13:47:08
In reply to Struggling, posted by Skittles on March 16, 2005, at 13:25:56
I am thinking that you need to be in some therapy - either with the same therapist if possible and if she would take you back, or with someone else if that doesn't work out with her.
At the end of the day, remember that it doesn't really matter so much whose mistake it was as opposed to what you felt/feeling and how to make yourself feel better going forwards. What would you get by analyzing whose mistake it was? So, maybe you can even call up your old T, and ask her if she would be willing to move forwards with you putting that issue behind both of you. If she isn't willing to, then best option would be to find a new T and try to work on your issues with her.
I know it is extremely difficult thing to do to move on, but sometimes it just helps and you realize later the worth of it.
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