Posted by pinkeye on March 7, 2005, at 19:06:59
I am realizing what I miss very much now... With my ex T, I was able to talk anything and everything. With my husband I am not able to talk about 50 % of the things that matter to me. He dismisses all these things very quickly. And that is why I feel so empty. I used to share a very close relationship with my parents, talking about almost everything, and I miss that with my husband. My ex T was a very good listener and I could tell almost anything without him dismissing it as stupid or irrelevant.
I don't miss the romance as I thought - only the talking and the emotional connection that brought on.
I do have a new T, but she is a woman and not quite the same as talking to a husband figure.
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