Posted by antigua on March 4, 2005, at 13:29:03
In reply to Session - Stuck?, posted by Speaker on February 26, 2005, at 13:34:04
I was "stuck" for almost six months. What a pain. Just going around and around again, feeling like I wasn't making any progress. Turned out it WAS my relationship w/my T. I tested her, pulled back, thought I was smarter than her and knew better, blamed her for just doing her "job", she didn't care about me, etc. etc. Bottom line: didn't trust her anymore and very seriously considered ending or switchings Ts.
Turned out it was all me and really had nothing to do w/her IRL; it was my mother and childhood issues relating to csa. I can't even remember how it was resolved, but we talked the issue to death and as much as I never, ever wanted to, I do trust her again.
Not explaining it very well. But if you keep working at it w/your T maybe it will become clearer. for me, it worked.
antigua
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