Posted by pinkeye on February 22, 2005, at 13:50:45
In reply to Two Steps Forward, One Back, posted by Susan47 on February 22, 2005, at 10:04:03
You probably have a profound need in yourself - to connect and develop a deep relationship with another person - a man. But you are trying to satisfy that need with your T - who was never romantically/emotionally available for you, who isn't and who never will be.
And given what you have said that you always had trouble connecting to people, no wonder you have trouble with your T as well.
Maybe recongizing that you have a basic human need to connect and that it is a very valid need for anybody is the first step to let go of this person. You can satisfy that need in a good rewarding way with people who are available to you. IT doesn't have to be in this disappointing way of one sided longing.
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