Posted by alexandra_k on February 19, 2005, at 15:20:26
In reply to Re: Alexandra and Dinah » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on February 19, 2005, at 14:31:31
Of course they aren't as interchangable as washing machines! I just meant that if there isn't anyone to replace the role they play in your life then that is when missing them hurts the most.
I still have one particular t that I miss most dreadfully sometimes.
But that is because I don't think any other has understood me or knew how to soothe me quite the way she did.
I know that having a new t won't make all that hurt go away. But it might lessen as you get more attached to her. You might start to think of her rather than your old t when you are distressed.
But there most probably always will be times when you miss him. But it doesn't have to be painful. It doesn't.
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