Posted by Poet on February 9, 2005, at 20:56:49
In reply to Re: Fired pdoc, told T none of her business (long) » Poet, posted by fallsfall on February 9, 2005, at 9:45:50
Hi Fallsfall,
I have been determined not to rely on anyone for anything for my entire adult life. Emotionally and financially. I just started talking about this in therapy. My T says we need to rewrite my life mission statement. That I stay in therapy because what I need to receive from the experience is to trust someone. Let myself be dependent on someone for help.
Everything you've said about yourself really seems to apply to me.
I haven't done a very good job keeping sane by myself. My coping mechanisms are not physically or mentally healthy.
Thanks for telling me your experience and that you were able to overcome your resistance. I need to learn that it's okay to let someone give me a gentle nudge in the right direction for me to leap over those I must be independent hurdles.
Poet
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