Posted by ghost on February 4, 2005, at 17:09:54
In reply to Re: i feel like dumping my T » ghost, posted by littleone on February 3, 2005, at 20:58:15
> Wow, your T sounds so cool.
i think it helps that she councils a lot of children. :)
> I have *a lot* of trouble talking in my sessions and always have to write heaps to my T. We've been playing cards for the last few months and I find it a little easier to talk if I can focus on the cards instead of on me or him or the carpet or whatever.
playing cards is SUCH a good idea! i can see how that would work. i talked a lot when i was coloring.
> How about you bring a slip of paper with you to your next session just saying "pastels" or "crayons". I'm sure your T will understand and be accommodating.
this is a good idea. i'll have to think about my mood before i walk in.
> Is the same sort of thing happening to you do you think? That you have a certain belief and your head twists things round to prove the belief?i do think this is it. one little bad event and it's the end of the world to me. i'm aware of it. just can't seem to fix it..
> Please try to stick with her as long as you can. If running away is a pattern for you, it's important to try and stay and work things out and develop a new pattern. Having said that, I do understand where you're coming from. It feels very threatening to stay.yeah, this is a pattern all right....
> My T often suggests things to problems I'm having. Usually I can see that his suggestions are a good idea, but blowed if I'm gonna do them. Yikes!! Sometimes I'll let the suggestion perculate for a month or two in my head before I even think about maybe possibly trying it.that's *exactly* it.
ant steps!
> I had to laugh at this! Thanks for my chuckles. Not that I know what tofutti is. A tofu product??? Somehow that doesn't quite compare to ice cream or chocolate :)
tofutti is soy ice cream made with tofu :) it's actually super good. even if you dont like tofu.
> And Daisy, what on earth is Cream of Wheat??? Sounds like some sort of porridge or maybe some soggy Weetbix. Give me mud cake any day!
heh. cream of wheat is flavorless hot cereal :)
mmm... mud cake.
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