Posted by Dinah on February 3, 2005, at 16:42:13
In reply to Re: Or just ask » Dinah, posted by mair on February 3, 2005, at 15:18:56
I guess that's the sort of thing I *could* talk about easily. In fact, I don't think I'd be able to do anything else until I did talk about it.
My first concern would be to assure him that I didn't hear anything from his conversation, so I'd frame it that way. I think apologizing for invading her space would be similar.
I may be open about sharing posts from here, but I choose what posts to share. If he came here and read without my choice, I'd feel absolutely violated. It's not that I keep anything from him; I don't. But I probably frame things differently with him than I do here.
I'm not sure there's anything wrong with that. My therapist says I have some mighty strong boundaries myself, but he says that's not a bad thing. It's healthy.
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