Posted by Speaker on February 1, 2005, at 22:12:47
My T uses wording that keeps him very distant for me. I know its my problem but I don't know if I should bring it up or should I just try to work through my feelings? He will say "I'm willing if you want to check in on Wednesday's" or I hope you know "I'm willing to call you back if you leave a message on my machine". I know I should be able to move past this but I struggle to feel like he is sincere. My first husband was terminally ill for several years and my daughter was chritically injured and had a year in the hospital. I could tell the people that truely wanted to help and they weren't the people that said: "Call me if you need me" and "I'm willing to help if you tell me what to do". I was so tired I couldn't think let alone think of things for other people to do. They were "willing" but the people that were sincere were the ones that mowed the lawn when they saw it was long or the woman that said I'm not very good at talking but I will be by on Sunday to get your laundry and will be returning it on Wednesdays. They weren't just willing they were doing! Is this just my problem or should I believe my heart and know he is just doing his job???
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