Posted by pegasus on January 18, 2005, at 12:35:19
In reply to Re: I think maybe...., posted by Dinah on January 17, 2005, at 20:55:34
"They're not aware that we're so aware of what constitute boundary violations."
I think this is a great insight and very true. It seems like most of the folks on babble can recognize a boundary violation when they're faced with one. But on the other hand, there are a lot of different ideas about what constitutes good boundaries, so I suppose that by one person's standards some things may cross, while by another person's they'd be totally fine.
I've never heard you mention anything from your T that sounded at all concerning regarding boundaries. The comment about having issues with dependent women seems like the worst (and if I recall correctly, you really pushed him on that issue, because you were feeling it anyway. So maybe that was something the two of you needed to discuss). In fact, I'd say that he sounds like he has relatively strict boundaries.
pegasus
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