Posted by pinkeye on December 30, 2004, at 13:47:49
In reply to Much Better Today but...(long), posted by 10derheart on December 29, 2004, at 23:58:43
Hi 10derHeart,
You are not alone. I am in the same boat as you are. Same circumstances - moved away from old T1 and going to new T2 - maintained email contact for a long time with T1 - and just now realized I am not going anywhere by keeping constant email contact with him (t1). So wrote to him saying that I want to cut back on all the email contact with him and keep only minimal contact.T1 was really great. But I like T2 also. T2 is a she. I chose this way deliberately since I had major attachment with T1 so thought having T2 as a woman would be better.
Anyway you look at it, it is a huge loss at the end - to lose a T. There is no easier way you can end a relationship like this without pain and suffering. Just have to accept it fully. That is the key.
poster:pinkeye
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