Posted by fallsfall on December 21, 2004, at 23:15:53
In reply to I'm very close to going back to old T, posted by crushedout on December 21, 2004, at 21:33:08
Starting with a new therapist is really hard. Particularly when you aren't sure you wanted to leave the old one.
Can I suggest that you talk to your new therapist about this? If it really would be best for you to go back to your old therapist, then you and the new therapist can figure that out. The new one sounds competent - so I don't think that she would be territorial. Please talk this through with her. Tell her that the connection is different - try to understand what that is all about.
I know you are really depressed right now. Please let your new therapist help with that. It *IS* hard to start again, but sometimes (like for me) starting again can give you new perspective on things. You were *so* unhappy for *so* long. Please consider this decision carefully.
Let your new therapist help you with this. That is what she is there for.
(((((Crushed)))))
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