Re: Can I give her another CD?

Posted by Joslynn on December 20, 2004, at 9:40:33

In reply to Re: Can I give her another CD? » crushedout, posted by crushedout on December 20, 2004, at 8:58:43

...well, I'm not fallsfall, but my answer would be that giving her the CD would continue the fantasy relationship.
I say this gently because I too have had real problems with fantasy relationships (you can have a fantasy relationship with someone you know in reality) and love addiction, I even went to a couple SLAA meetings and read a lot of books about love addiction. I am not saying that is your problem, but the idea is that you have to treat the dependency like an addiction, using the 12-step model.
Sending a CD would be like having another drink or another hit of a drug, does that make sense?

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Can I give her another CD? crushedout 12/20/04
No. (nm) fallsfall 12/20/04
Re: Can I give her another CD? » crushedout crushedout 12/20/04
Re: Can I give her another CD? Joslynn 12/20/04
whoops, above for falls of course (not me) (nm) crushedout 12/20/04
Re: Can I give her another CD? » Joslynn crushedout 12/20/04
Re: Can I give her another CD? » crushedout Tabitha 12/20/04
great thoughts (nm) » Tabitha crushedout 12/20/04
Re: Can I give her another CD? » crushedout fallsfall 12/20/04
Re: Can I give her another CD? » Tabitha crushedout 12/20/04
Does this mean... crushedout 12/20/04

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