Posted by Aphrodite on December 12, 2004, at 17:53:18
In reply to Too much pressure (trigger), posted by Dinah on December 12, 2004, at 14:32:49
Just read your message and glad to hear that you thought to try some alternatives -- I'm sorry they didn't work. Keep thinking of alternatives until SI is option number 25 billion zillion, OK?
I really hate that this issue seems to set off alarm bells in his head. That's really not the way to handle it. Seems like he should go to some professional development, seek consultation, or do some heavy-duty reading so that his reactions don't cause you even further pain. Of course, I don't know a Miss Manners way to suggest it.
I know you are name, rank, and serial number with your pdoc, but does he know about the SI? Maybe he could be more helpful?
I've heard things about submerging your hands in ice or taking a hot shower or some other shock to the system in order to deal with it. Have you tried that and if so, does it work?
I'll keep you in my prayers.
(((Dinah)))
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