Posted by Dinah on December 3, 2004, at 21:09:07
In reply to Re: Ah hah! I knew I was right. » Dinah, posted by daisym on December 3, 2004, at 15:33:23
Hmmm... Funny, but I have learned those skills as well. I must have just learned it differently. I think with my parents the chain of events didn't predict a similar outcome, so I didn't need to concentrate on that to learn to avoid trouble. With my parents it depended more on their mood, so I protected myself by learning to constantly monitor small changes in mood and zig and zag myself in relationship to those changes.
I can certainly see though that if similar circumstances brought similar results, it would be very self protective to be aware of what preceded a problem.
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