Posted by daisym on December 3, 2004, at 15:33:23
In reply to Ah hah! I knew I was right., posted by Dinah on December 3, 2004, at 15:03:56
I'll disagree because once I learn the trigger for someone, I rarely get trapped in any kind of unexpected response from them. So remembering helps me egg shell walk and that was a really valuable skill to have when I was a kid. Still is, in some areas of my life.
If I couldn't remember what led up to it, I wouldn't know how to not repeat it.
Again, it's a control thing.
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