Posted by peacefeline on November 28, 2004, at 14:53:51
In reply to Re: Is my T dumping me?, posted by smokeymadison on November 28, 2004, at 14:34:35
Another thing that is very important, I think even the most important, is that you "click" with them.
If you get on well with a T, you will be able to build up trust and a close relationship. Without that, their credentials/specialties/other approaches don't really matter much at all.
To determine if you "click", I would think it would be apparent within a short time of beginning to talk with them. For sure if you DON'T like them, that would be obvious quickly.
The one my H goes to, I knew on the phone immmediately, that she was very special. And she is. That quality of empathy came across just fine on the phone. I guess you could say I prescreened a number of them right there on the telephone.
Good luck to you!
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