Posted by konfuzed on November 19, 2004, at 10:22:07
In reply to Thanks!! (nm) » B2Chica, posted by thewrite1 on November 16, 2004, at 21:13:02
I have been going with my wife for T for 7 years. I know she needs it and I am an active participent in her recovery. How can you have a real and healthy relationship with your SO or mate without being honest about your feelings? If he would attend your sessions, he could contribute insight and feel part of the process and be less critisizing of your sessions. I have to take the latest appt's from work, but I let my employer know that my family was more important than my job. We worked out a solution together to make up loss of work.Yes, we like to "fix" things, it keeps us from feeling helpless.
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