Posted by Aphrodite on November 15, 2004, at 12:52:35
In reply to Re: He keeps talking about his girlfriend . . . » Aphrodite, posted by daisym on November 13, 2004, at 22:01:46
I think you're right that I am jealous of the connectedness. The more I thought about this issue, I recall being equally jealous last Christmas when he spoke about doing things for his parents. I was jealous I didn't have parents to spend the holidays with.
I think (I know) I've created this self-disclosure monster. I used to complain about him being an enigma. Everytime he disclosed, it made me feel closer to him, and he could tell. So, I think it's something he uses as a tool when I am distancing myself from him. The poor guy can't win with me; I'm complaining either way.
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