Posted by asya on November 10, 2004, at 12:42:46
So I haven't seen my T in about 6 weeks due to craziness at work and not really having a chance to call her. (I used to go regularly when I was at my old job, but feel less free to go at this new job). Since I last saw her, there have been many positive developments in my life, and I do not want to minimize those, but as a lot of people can attest, I have a strong fear of her wondering why I am still coming etc. I think I want to terminate in maybe 6 mos or so, but I want it to be gentle, not ripping my heart out. Ok, so anyway, my question is, how do I say things are good and still communicate my underlying dissatisfaction with myself? Also, how do I ask about termination, where she thinks I am, etc? I have SERIOUS problems with being assertive and I don't know what to do. I am afraid that the next session might be the last, please help!
poster:asya
thread:414255
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