Posted by gardenergirl on July 13, 2004, at 23:34:49
In reply to Transference pain never ends, posted by crushedout on July 13, 2004, at 21:19:15
I wish I had magic words to comfort you. It does sound like a continued painful experience. And having a new relationship can be stressful, even if it's good stress. It sounds like a confusing time right now. You said it's gone on so long, but I think slow is a good thing right now. As painful as that may be. Although as I type this, I had this image of pulling off a bandaid, which you usually want to do fast. Slow is worse. See, it is confusing.
All I can really say is, I'm sorry you are hurting so much. You don't deserve it. No one does. Please take care.
(((((((((crushed))))))))))
gg
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