Posted by daisym on July 13, 2004, at 0:15:21
In reply to A nice session to share, posted by Dinah on July 12, 2004, at 20:04:00
He did a good job of walking that fine line between what the little girl needs and the adult wants. And I'm proud of you for letting both have their say.
Now, don't let the adult make the little girl miserable about still wanting to need him and how safe that makes her feel. I know she is scared about this change but it isn't written in stone and she can still reach out when she needs him.
I'm glad you are doing so well. You were very brave today. Be gentle with yourself.
(((Dinah)))
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