Posted by Pfinstegg on July 9, 2004, at 21:15:11
In reply to Re: angry - shortelise, posted by shortelise on July 9, 2004, at 0:37:10
I'd really like to hear how this all works out for you, and what sort of reaction you get when (not *if*!) you tell him how you are feeling. Even though terminations are tough, and do involve a huge loss for us all, I do believe that it's possible to do it in such a way that you *take him with you* in your heart and mind. That way, you don't lose any of the gains you've made. I think feeling *pushed* is horrible, especially after having had such a good experience with him. What about, in addition to telling him how angry you are, you ask if YOU can be the one to initiate lessening the frequency of sessions, as you feel ready- not before?
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