Posted by shadows721 on June 27, 2004, at 1:15:56
In reply to Re: False Memory Syndrome vs. Lying Perpetrator Syndro, posted by fires on June 26, 2004, at 22:53:41
It is obvious that the person that conducted the Seminar is richly invested in NOT recognizing the horrific damages of rape and incest. One must look at the motive for that minimization. Why would someone look into the eyes of a victim of incest and say something like this?
Fires, I feel you are transferring some feelings on to this board that do not belong to us. I have kindly asked you what was really bothering you and I got no reply. I have kindly asked you to put down this sword (as you stated). I asked you if you were dx with MPD and again I got no reply. I told you of my experience and you stated you didn't understand what I was referring too. Is this intensive focus on disputing therapy and MPD which is directed at me and others (victims of abuse) a diversion of undealt with feelings?
You stated you were backing off, but we are left with yet another post of comparing the memory compacity of Earthquakes to other traumas.
You stated that you lost your brother some where in a post. I am so sorry for your loss. It sounded like his passing was very difficult for you. I am so sorry for that. Is this what's really going on? Is it the pain of grief that is causing all this? I never lost a brother, so I have no idea what you are going through. I feel it is no coincidence you are here. I really don't think it has to do with this particular issue. We can talk words all day, but it doesn't go to the real heart of the matter Fires. What's in your heart that is causing all this pain? I don't hear your feelings Fires. All I read are websites, Freud, and skeptics on MPD. Where are the feelings? Please try to put that into words. I know it must be very very difficult.
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