Posted by fallsfall on June 10, 2004, at 9:40:12
In reply to Ugh -- worried about new therapist, posted by Racer on June 9, 2004, at 17:47:02
I hope that you can tell her what you have told us. I really think that if you put these things out in the open (rather than just waiting to see if your fear "comes true") that you can learn a lot. You can learn why you have the fear. You can be more honest about the signs that you see - and verify if those signs are true, or if you (like me...) "see" things that aren't really meant by the other person.
Sometimes just putting it all on the table and seeing what happens really works. The added benefit is that if the relationship isn't going to work, this is one way to find out sooner rather than later.
Your fear is not very unusual - I'm sure that she won't be taken back by it.
Good luck
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