Posted by Racer on June 4, 2004, at 16:33:31
In reply to Re: Comments on Therapist's Appearance, posted by starlight on June 4, 2004, at 13:59:35
I read my chart, too, and got a shock on the appearance front: every entry said the same thing about my appearance:
"Casually dressed, neatly groomed"
EXCEPT for one, which said:
"Casually dressed, adequately groomed"
Hello? I shower the same way before every appointment. I wear clothes from the same wardrobe - because that's what I own and wear. If I didn't look "neatly groomed" one day, it's a perception problem on his part, or a reaction to me being overwhelmingly depressed that day.
(I did wear contacts instead of specs one day, and did put on some makeup that day for something earlier in the day. Sure would like to see what showed up on that entry. "casually dressed, over groomed?")
You know what though? I'm glad you saw it and got to fire him. I can't imagine the attitude that would have gone with a note like that. (Although it does tend to support my theory that most men are incapable of "seeing" women. They see something they make up themselves superimposed on the REAL woman in front of them. Just a theory.)
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