Posted by shadows721 on May 24, 2004, at 22:02:18
In reply to I'm losing all my friends (is this more BPD stuff, posted by crushedout on May 24, 2004, at 20:37:13
Crushed,
Why is that friend applying for a position that used to be yours? I would thing that was a competition thing. I mean all the jobs out there and they want the one that I had. Hmmmm Would I be hurt? Yes, it's only natural that if I had a bad experience, that I wouldn't want to hear someone doing great there and rub it in later. What's their real motive competition or jealousy? Is this the only job out there for their qualifications? If so, then I would understand why they applied there. But, it would still hurt. You can think this all over and decide later that you may or may not want this friend. Friends make mistakes too. Your friend may later admit that.
Have you asked why your t thinks you have BPD? What does it mean to you if you do? If I understand diagnosing correctly, it shouldn't change things just help explain them.
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