Posted by crushedout on May 24, 2004, at 21:51:22
In reply to Another perspective? » crushedout, posted by Racer on May 24, 2004, at 21:41:41
Thanks, Racer. I agree she didn't need my permission to apply, but it seems like, given the history, if she cared about our friendship, she would have just *talked* about it with me before doing it. I don't mean she needed to ask. Of course, I guess I'm suggesting she should have disingenuously made me *feel* like she was checking with me first, but then if I'd said no, she should have gone ahead and did it anyway. Oh, I don't know.
I appreciate that you see both sides. Makes me think it's not black and white, which is good and sensible, and gives me hope for the friendship (if not for my sanity).
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