Posted by Fallen4MyT on April 26, 2004, at 1:03:41
In reply to Re: Is the attraction mutual? » Fallen4MyT, posted by Pfinstegg on April 22, 2004, at 10:13:27
I do not think I would seek additional therapy...I will never be what we think of as "well" because of my past but I am OK for ME...if that makes sense...so no I would not see anyone else....and well I always think no matter what, a relationship is always at the high point of the rollercoaster...in the beginning..I really dont think I will/do/would feel the relationship is more intense cause he is my T...I am not in denial either I just feel about him as I have others I have been in love with and if it ends badly so be it it won't be the first or last time I didnt get a fairybook ending...We are both old enough to deal with the loss should it come to pass. I am simply in love with a man who happens to be my T..,he could have been my car mechainic and I would feel the same.
> This is just amazing! From what you've said previously, you have done a lot a good therapeutic work with him, also, and are feeling much better. Do you feel well now, or would you want additional therapy, perhaps from someone else, for your own issues? Do you worry at all that the therapeutic encounter intensifies love and sexual feelings tremendously, sometimes, for both people - and that they might wane in an ordinary setting?
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