Posted by Fallen4MyT on April 15, 2004, at 19:26:44
In reply to Re: Is the attraction mutual? » Fallen4MyT, posted by BigFish on April 15, 2004, at 15:18:17
Hey BigFish :) Thanks for not dissing my T...I do not care if he is unethical or any of that and like yourself and well aware of transferance and all it implies. It simply isn't the case for me, even my T said so :) I do think sometimes you can love or be in love with a client or T and NOT have it be transferance. For me I am a big girl and am oddly stable enough for the rough waters that COULD come up when/if we cross anymore lines....and can weather it I feel as I have had a broken heart in the past (say it came to that) and may again in the future for ANYONE. I AM willing to go ALL the way with this and my T...I am waiting on his bigger move if you get my drift. I guess what you need to ask yourself is can you take whatever comes no matter what? I know I can. I am also ready to be open to a good long lasting relationship with him. Many do get hurt in these situations sadly and many go on to become Mrs T...I have known of some cases. YOU had a opening with him on the friend and love deal..Can you ask for him to expound on that?? Can you toss out you care for him??? There is so much I could say and share but I feel like a target on the boards because I have a more relaxed attitude on this subject. I do not debate the issue with well meaning people who are RIGHT in MANY though not MY case....so I say little and am to be honest happy with my budding relationship with my T...I do know I am shy and missed a few moves ...gimme time and :) How about you? You less shy?
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