Posted by Miss Honeychurch on April 15, 2004, at 12:11:48
In reply to instincts » Miss Honeychurch, posted by crushedout on April 15, 2004, at 11:57:54
Wow, that's very astute crushed. You have a second set of instincts which is telling you your first set of instincts (about sleeping with her) are probably not in your best interest.
Conflict is so frustrating. I am impressed that you on some level know that sleeping with her wouldn't be in your best interests. Just following your story, I'm not so sure if you would have said that, say, 6 months ago.
And I really do hope you go to see the second therapist. Sometimes having an objective opinion is so refreshing. And I don't think it is any of Ellen's business. You shouldn't feel guilty about not telling her. You should never feel guilty about exploring what is best FOR YOU.
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